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    • Home
    • Welcome
    • Let's Get Vulnerable
      • The Role of a Therapist
      • Internship Challenges
      • Documentation Struggles
    • How to Talk About Therapy
      • What is Therapy?
      • Informed Consent
    • Clinical Documentation
      • Mental Status
      • Therapy Notes
      • Treatment Planning
    • Interventions
      • CBT and TF-CBT
      • DBT
      • EMDR
      • BrainSpotting
  • Home
  • Welcome
  • Let's Get Vulnerable
    • The Role of a Therapist
    • Internship Challenges
    • Documentation Struggles
  • How to Talk About Therapy
    • What is Therapy?
    • Informed Consent
  • Clinical Documentation
    • Mental Status
    • Therapy Notes
    • Treatment Planning
  • Interventions
    • CBT and TF-CBT
    • DBT
    • EMDR
    • BrainSpotting

How To Talk About Therapy

Understanding what therapy is and how the therapeutic process works helps clients feel more informed, empowered, and comfortable throughout treatment. A strong understanding of the foundation of therapy allows clients to actively participate in their care and develop a meaningful partnership with their therapist.

What is Therapy?

How do you talk to a client about therapy?

The purpose of therapy is not to “fix” a person or tell them what to do. Instead, therapy helps clients understand what is happening, identify patterns, process experiences, develop effective coping strategies, and make meaningful changes that align with their goals and values.


Depending on the client's needs, therapy may focus on:

  • Processing trauma, grief, or difficult life experiences
  • Understanding thoughts, emotions, and behavioral patterns
  • Developing healthy coping and emotion-regulation skills
  • Improving relationships and communication
  • Reducing symptoms of anxiety, depression, PTSD, or other concerns
  • Building self-awareness, confidence, and a stronger sense of identity
  • Developing problem-solving and decision-making skills
  • Increasing resilience and ability to manage future stressors
  • Creating meaningful and sustainable behavioral change

At its core, therapy is a collaborative process. The therapist brings clinical knowledge, training, and therapeutic interventions, while the client brings their lived experience, goals, perspectives, and willingness to engage in the process. The goal is to work together to create a treatment process that supports the client's individual needs.

"There are many different types of therapy, and each one approaches problems a little differently. Some focus more on thoughts and behaviors, some focus on emotions and relationships, and others focus on processing past experiences or trauma. There isn't necessarily one approach that works for everyone. Part of our job together is figuring out what fits your needs, goals, personality, situation, and what you're comfortable with."

How To Introduce Interventions in the Discussion

CBT

EMDR

CBT

“We look at the connection between your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and work on patterns that may be keeping you stuck.”

DBT

EMDR

CBT

“We focus on managing intense emotions, tolerating distress, improving relationships, and responding to situations more effectively.”

EMDR

EMDR

Parts Work | IFS

“We work with distressing memories or experiences in a structured way to help your brain process them differently so they become less emotionally overwhelming.”

Parts Work | IFS

Parts Work | IFS

Parts Work | IFS

“Parts Work helps us understand the different sides of ourselves and the roles they developed to help us cope, protect ourselves, or get our needs met.”

Play Therapy

Parts Work | IFS

Exposure Therapy

“For children, play can be a way of communicating and processing experiences when they don't yet have the words to explain everything they're feeling.”

Exposure Therapy

Parts Work | IFS

Exposure Therapy

“We gradually and safely work toward facing things that create fear or avoidance so that you can develop a greater sense of control and learn that anxiety can decrease without avoidance.”

BrainSpotting

Trust Based Relational Intervention

Trauma Focused Interventions

“Brainspotting helps us use the connection between your eyes, brain, and body to explore and process experiences that may feel stuck or difficult to put into words.”

Trauma Focused Interventions

Trust Based Relational Intervention

Trauma Focused Interventions

“We focus on understanding and processing the impact that traumatic experiences have had on your emotions, behaviors, relationships, and sense of safety.”

Trust Based Relational Intervention

Trust Based Relational Intervention

Trust Based Relational Intervention

“TBRI helps us understand behavior through the lens of connection, safety, and unmet needs. We focus on helping children feel safe and understood while building skills for emotional and behavioral regulation.”

Important:

Therapy isn't about forcing a client into one particular treatment model. Your treatment should be individualized, and may include a combination of many approaches. Ethical informed consent requires us to remind clients that multiple interventions may be used, and collaboration will occur throughout treatment. 

informed consent

What is Therapy?

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